the starter's
The starter's site comes with its theme, starter/theme/ in tilder's repository: a layout, a stylesheet and a link preview, on system fonts, with no script. It styles every class the build writes and meets WCAG AA contrast in light and dark. Starting from the starter (getting started) gives you this theme to change as you like.
this site's
The site you are reading uses a theme of its own, and shows what a larger theme does: two more layouts (layouts/home.html for the landing page, layouts/doc.html for the documentation), two content types in types/ (doc and showcase), three scripts (the copy button, the sidebar on small screens, the search), self-hosted fonts, and its words in English and French in theme.toml and theme.fr.toml.
another one
Copy its folder as theme/, then read its README: a theme that adds content types says which collections to declare in site.toml, and a theme may need a version of tilder or a server setting (a search reads its index, which needs connect-src 'self' in the page's Content-Security-Policy).